As parents, we worry about our children’s safety
and keeping our new drivers safe.


Follow these tips to help your teen become a safe driver:


Set an Example

Use safe driving behaviors for your child to model.  There are plenty of “teachable moments” for you to share each time you ride in the car together.

Practice, Practice, Practice

The single most important factor in developing a safe driver.  Devote at least 50 hours to teaching your teen to drive.  Keep track weekly of the hours you and your teen have driven together with a Driving Practice Log  (i.e. jot down skills practiced, those mastered, and new ones to work on)

Sample driving observation sheet     Step by step practice driving guide

Understand and Enforce New Jersey’s Driving Laws

Driving is a privilege — not a right!  The New Jersey driving manual is the best resource for understanding the laws and regulations you and your teen need to know (available online or at any motor vehicle location).  Read about the Graduated Driver License Program.  Also, the New Jersey Motor Vehicle Commission (NJMVC) offers a Parent’s Guide to Teaching Teens Safe Driving.

Develop a Parent/Teen Driving Contract

To provide both you and your teen with a framework for setting and enforcing effective rules, it’s a good idea to create a written Parent/Teen Driving Agreement. According to research, teens whose parents limit initial driving privileges (like driving at night or with other teenage passengers) are less likely to engage in risky driving, to get tickets, and have crashes. Additionally, parent to parent and teen to teen contracts help create a network of support to keep teen drivers safe.

View samples of parent-teen agreements:
AAA, Allstate, Say Yes To Life

Discuss Unsafe Driving Situations

Your new driver has a lot to learn — and you play an important role in his or her education! Discuss these “key points” often to help your teen stay safe on the road.

Teach Your Teen to Anticipate Road Hazards

Even under the best conditions, driving has its risks. When special situations or hazards arise, paying attention to driving and making good decisions become even more vital. Teach your teen to anticipate potential problems and how to respond. Teach your teen to keep a margin of safety around the vehicle, look for a way out and develop a plan of action to avoid crashes. Take this interactive challenge with your teen to practice avoiding road hazards.

Help Your Teen Take Control

You’ve practiced driving with your teen and you feel confident that he or she knows what they need to do to be a safe driver. But when it comes to the moment, and when they are with friends who may want them to make unsafe choices, it’s harder for them to say what they need to say and do what they need to do.  Teach them to speak up for what they know is safe and right.

Choose a Safe Car for Your Teen

Considering teens in New Jersey are involved in a crash every nine minutes, safety needs to be a priority whenchoosing the car your teen will drive. Late model, mid and full size cars are often the best options. Be sure the car is equipped with air bags, electronic stability control and automatic breaking systems. To check the safety ratings of a car, please visit the NHTSA and IIHS. Avoid cars that have a sporty image, as they can encourage teens to speed.

Teach the Importance of Car Maintenance

It is important to keep a car in good working condition. Routine maintenance checks should be performed regularly – here’s an overview of car maintenance. Road emergencies occur often, from getting a flat tire, to over heating an engine. If your car does break down, it is important to talk to your teen about what to do. Make sure the car is equipped with a roadside emergency kit, or consider a roadside emergency service.

Know the Steps to Take After a Crash

You’ve spent so much time trying to help your teen avoid a crash, but it is also important to teach your new driver what to do if a crash does occur. Review this printable checklist with your teen and keep a copy in the vehicle.